I don’t care if people say I am a loser etc. To be cheated on, is what I would not wish on any other.
I don’t even really care what anyone says anymore. I mean, how many more years do I have to work anyway. Even if I don’t work right now, I should be fine.
But she will ruin my daughter’s future. Do mothers’ even know what it is to ruin another person’s life? If it was not for my daughter, I would just bring the house down and let the bank fire her immediately. They definitely would fire her for bringing shame to the bank, especially since she is so high up. But seriously, what would it do?
I hate her so much. I want her to feel and suffer the same pain I am going through right now. It is not fair! But I still have to think of my daughter. True, she is not mine per say, but after so long, it would be so painful never to see her again. I know my daughter would probably blame her mother first but if I do take that step of revealing who this slut is, it will definitely affect my daughter also.
As the saying goes, Left also cannot. Right also cannot.
My Cheating Wife 
So sorry to hear what you are going through. Like what you say it will affect your daughter, then why do you still screen shot those messages with your wife’s hp no. I am a girl who has grown up in a broken family and i can say it affects me alot like i do not believe in love and other aspects in life. My dad experienced what you are going through and i hate both my parents. Do you know why cause i feel they did not spare a thought for me. I strongly believe if your daughter reads this blog she will truly heart broken how come my mum is doing that and how can my dad posted online to let everyone knows what is happening in my family. She will feel shamed and it will affect her life, childhood and etc. I really feel for your daughter as i feel she is so innocent and every kids just want to have a happy family. Like for instance, if you did not post online i will feel yes my mum has cheated me and my dad but at least i still have my dad who is there for me,love me. I can tell you my childhood affects me badly till date i still can never believe in love, trust anyone. If you love your daughter why not remove this blog instead letting the world know what is happening in your family and settle it privately. Trust me, if your daughter knows it she will feel differently. Be strong and god bless you!
The number is not my wife’s number. If I published my wife’s number, she would be easily be identified right now. The number is the other man’s number, which apparently is seldom turned on.
My girl is only 2 years old. She cannot read at the moment. But having said that, I am feeling the pain a lot. If my wife was an ordinary woman, most people would not give two hoots. But if I did make a mountain of out this, you can be sure that the press would have a field day especially since my wife is in senior management in a big bank. And that makes it even harder for me to pull the trigger and let my little girl suffer for her mother’s mistake. But by the same token, I am feeling totally helpless that she is screwing around with someone else and me having to pay the price of her indiscretions.
I am not advertising anything but need a place to vent my feelings. I am still torn between escalating this and protecting my little girl’s feelings. Yes, she is not my own daughter, but having spent so long with her, the feeling is unbearable for me. To be honest, I should not be the one who cares about her feelings but I do care! It should be her own father who cares, yet, I feel that I have a responsibility towards my daughter. Am I wrong to have such feelings.
Your daughter is only two, she will have no memory of any of this. You keep holding back on what you truly want to do. You will be in misery while your wife is flat out lying to you about this affair. You need to expose this man. If it is so detrimental to be exposed from this affair they should have thought of that before. If she convinces you not to she will keep on seeing this guy. She will rub it in your face again and again. she is still seeing him.lying to you more. You feel a responsibility to your daughter. But you owe yourself the respect you deserve. you did not ask for this. They did this to themselves. Why should he be in a happy marriage with your wife as his lover, and you have nothing but heartache and misery, while they carry on. EXPOSE THEM>
So sorry to hear your plight! As a guy, i dont think i can tolerate a cuckold.. You are a strong man! If i were you, i will consolidate all the evidence and throw right infront of her face and ask her what you should do. Ask her sign an indeminty form that she will no ask maintenance blah blah or a single cent from you. Else, blow up the matter and make her one of the stars in the papers!! Like some recent court case with the “sex for contract”. Either way, you need to live with it or break it? You choose!
Pan / you are an idiot hare brain. the slut should PAY UP! Not to be let off or given an indemnity, wtf?? The slut is not fit to be given child custody. No sane human/judge would side with her.
Will, my boyfriend cheated on me before. I was trying my best to get to him because he is not local. And we have been together for 3 years, but he still did that. When I found out something was wrong, my boyfriend still didn’t want to say anything substantial. So I was waiting for him to say something, and I want to see what he planned to do. But in the end I was the one who broke it off. He was just letting it continue with the slut.
I totally know how you feel. When we are single, we can do whatever we want, but when in a relationship, and it is a marriage even, a union, we have responsibilities toward our partner. So in the end I went to visit him, took a 18-hour plane ride all the way over to another side of the world. Just to see him. But we worked things out and he was truly sorry. And he knew that I was the one for him and that slut was someone that was toying with him.
But I am still having this fear that he would commit the same mistake again. I know this fear would go away, and I gave him one more chance. But, of course, your situation is much more severe. You are a truly responsible man. Always sparing a thought for your family. People like us shouldn’t even be treated this way. Your wife committed adultery. Actually if you have a divorce with your wife, the child would go to her because she is under 12 years old. But with these clamming evidence, you would be granted the custody most probably. Well, anyways, I am sure you would make a decision good for you and your little girl. So what if the child is not your own blood. It is so common for people to adopt nowadays. Revenge is not always the best choice. I was so planning to revenge on my boyfriend at first. But then I just gave up on that because it is a waste of energy and time. If it’s through, it is through. Because one day that person would receive what he/she gave to the others. Living as a slut is really down there. Nobody would have a happy life living as a rotten, festering piece of meat.
Stay strong.
What font do you use for your title? So cool
i ask you your daughter is young and unknown do you really really want her to be raised by such a women? keep it down, heck later even with the daughter at home she might even heck care and call that guy over , the saying goes what goes around comes around, some parents are just bad you should understand, break it and move on
Stay strong man, it’s a rough patch now, but you can pull through this obstacles you’re facing now. When you feel it’s the right time, to do whatever you want to do, do it. But follow your heart not your brain, don’t make mistakes and make the right and correct choices. Don’t suffer silently, tell a friend, your parents, get some marriage advice for further help! Knock some sense into that woman, what she have done may be unforgivable but she’s still the mother of your child.
Many SIngaporeans will be looking out for you xx
Bro, the company wont care wan lah… MNC will just ignore this as personal issue and not a professional issue.
Trust me man, live your own life. If you seriously want to take care of your daughter, make sure you get SOLE CUSTODY. But remember that your daughter will always remind you of this moment in your life – do you really want that baggage for the rest of your life?
Wouldn’t you rather let it all (and your daughter) go and move on?
I am sorry that u have such a horrible wife. Your feelings for your daughter is natural. However she is not yours, so this should work to lessen your emotional attachment to her.
You have nothing to lose if u declare outright war against your wife and that civil servant who has been screwing around. I am sure your wife is only one of the many bitches he fucks. This civil servant must be exposed. He has no right to be serving Singaporeans.
There are so many girls out there. So getting another wife is not a problem. However it helps to heal your hurt feelings if u just go out and shoot as many girls as you can.Make a clean cut and move on. Bringing the girl along will give u more headache and heartache later on. She is not yours and sooner or later she will find out and seek out her real father. Then the drama continues. U will give your future ex plenty of opportunities to mock at u. Don’t make the mistake.
I cannot imagine how it feels to be cheated like you were… But allow me to say this if I could; Why think so much about blowing the lid off? Why even care about the innocent child? She isn’t yours and that adulterous pair of dogs don’t even bother with your feelings.
You’re a good man and a father as well.
really praise you for keeping your cool for the sake of your daughter.
the child shouldnt carries the baggage of burden for the adults,
as a husband and a father of two child, it really makes me sick in the stomach reading what you found. but being a man its really a role to protect the woman we loved, and in your case, your little girl. its a hard decision yet imagine the psychological effect on the little girl and having to grown up with that burden. its really not a ideal growing up process. its really how you want to be the man who supported and help a girl to grow up to be a fine woman who can contribute to society with your unfailing love. its turning your hatred into a positive energy for a greater responsibilities. i know at this point “only Jesus could do that..” will surfaced. it will be difficult for me too, but God will see it thru. Dont blame anyone for the circumstances you are in, how about asking yourself what really happen? and learn from it and move on. the little girl really dont deserved these, she deserved more and greater. we as a adult can deal with it, as being a young child can they deal with it? stay strong!
I feel your pain cos i too went through the same thing 3 years ago. You are a strong man and I’m sure to be able to stay focus and rationale, it’s taking up all your energy now. First thing first. Stop calling her your wife. The very moment she decided to betray you and give herself to another man, she already gave up that privilege. Second, calling her names, exposing all their dirty deeds, planning revenge etc, that’s wasting your life and time. It does not help and make e situation any better. In fact I believe it makes you even more bitter. Thirdly, you are already suffering for their indiscretion, why need to make yourself more bitter and suffer more? Won’t it be better to look forward and get your NEW life in order. This is God’s way of telling you, When one Door closes, anyone will be open for you, another Better one. Forth, it breaks my heart to have my own flesh and blood taken away from me for something that’s no fault of mine and I can understand your fear. Instead on focusing on Fear and anger, why not focus on what are your plans for your daughter? Although she’s not your flesh and blood, you’re the only Daddy that she’d ever known. If you still love her and want to be part of her future, pour your energy into making sure that she knows you are the best Daddy that she can ever have, even though you cannot be by her side all the time. Fifth, decide right away what you want to do now, moving forward. If you’re sure that this family is broken beyond repair, seek legal advice and File for Divorce. Six, do not and I repeat, do not put yourself at a dis-advantage and be caught red handed. You can’t be sure that she or anyone else is not checking up on you. And that includes your In-laws cos it’s obvious whose side they will be on. You have e advantage here to use the information you’d collected. Use them wisely. Finally, forgive but never forget. Learn from this experience. I can see from your posts you are a great Daddy and still love your daughter loads. Don’t take that away from you daughter. Work out a plan to have access to her, if you still care for her. Lastly, Have faith in God, cos in God anything is possible.
I think your daughter should know about this. I know she innocent and all but after remembering about your wife cheating on you do you want her to call her mom or your wife even having the privilege to having a lovely girl calling her that. Sure it may leave some scar on her and she may cry about it but also remember it’s also your life and If you keep holding on the truth from your daughter the scar will be bigger as she gets older. she will grow up thinking that mom was great and all and you cannot hide the truth forever you know.
Take all the evidence to a lawyer, make him draw up the papers for divorce and bitchslap her with those papers like she bitchslapped your marriage… It’s pretty simple! If you don’t, later your daughter will become a whore as well… Take full custody of her and dump the slut, take your kid (doesn’t matter if she’s not YOUR blood but she is YOUR girl) and kick her out … Key her BMW too just cuz u can…
Have fun and don’t worry about bitches that don’t deserve happiness. Rather focus on the little one that does
I was searching the web for cheating wife confessions because my wife cheated on me and right after I found out about it, I learned that she is pregnant , probably from me.
I am in a big pain, and reading similar cases reduces my pain little bit temporary.
Anyway man, I am so sorry that you have been betrayed like that. God help us !
Nearly a year on; I’m guessing you avoid coming back. On the off chance you do – I empathize. Same thing happened with an ex. So much darkness back then, and everything was so wrong. I can only imagine how much worse is is having a child to hurt for, for her mother’s indiscretions. But consider this, the guy is in civil service. His SMSs are vile. He’s self serving, irresponsible and totally inconsiderate to others. Narcissistic too. People like him shouldn’t be leading the country or shaping it. And your wife’s in senior management but apparently hasn’t ever understood responsibility that she’s willing to throw everything away for fantasy forbidden orgasmic “love”. He doesn’t deserve to keep his job. He deserves to fall, and struggle to support his family. Your wife doesn’t deserve to keep her position, and she doesn’t deserve you. You can still be a wonderful father to your daughter (even if she’s genetically his daughter, you loved annd will love her growing up so she will always be yours) and you can still be a wonderful husband to someone loyal and good, and a wonderful father to another son or daughter. You can still have it all.
Your wife and her lover – deserve to lose it all.
Make it happen.
drop me a mail if you need to talk.
oh yeah and I forgot – she deserves to feel betrayal too.But don’t worry you won’t have to do it. When the lid comes off and his marriage comes under strain, she’ll learn the bitter truth when he goes crying back to his own wife and child, tail hanging down between his legs begging forgiveness. Then she’ll know how much he really loved her, enough to shoot his load in despite her protests, but not enough to give anything up for her, not enough to support her, not enough to help her in her time of need. She’ll know then what a “real” man is – the kind who still hurt over her and for her after she had betrayed him, the kind that looked after her and her child with another man even though he was tearing up inside, and breaking apart in his head. She’ll miss you then, but it will be too late. And she’ll deserve to feel betrayed. And God willing, nobody will ever have to suffer her again because she’ll be old, divorced and with a daughter. God willing.
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